I have had the most wonderful last 6+ years. On July 21, 2000 I found my birth parents names and started tracking.  Unfortunately both my Dad and Mom were gone but I have found siblings, aunts and uncles and lots of cousins. They have been so nice and accepting . I feel that I have known them all my life.  My experience has been very pleasurable although I know quite often they are not.  I am thankful to finally find the medical information I needed and so many super wonderful people in the process.  I spent very little money in my search- quite a bit of time on the Internet and phone.  I'd be glad to help any one in their search if I can on where to look and what to do.  I had help in my search and I'd be glad to help anyone else.  E-mail me at rozells@sbcglobal.net

Oklahoma laws are very archacic. In one county you can get information and another you can’t find out anything. It needs to be standardized and not let the local Judges interpret it as they see fit. Apply through the county at the Court clerk where you were adopted to get the information on your birth parents.

I did not realize that DHS had an Adoption Registry available when I first started this.  It was through the insistence of the lady that works there for me to pursue getting my records open although the registry did not help me directly finding them but could have had my Mother ever registered trying to find me. This service would be of more help to those placed through DHS services. But I would suggest that as a starting place for anyone. Cost was $20.00  You have to wait 6 months and then for $400 they will search for you. Try it on your own first. You can find out a lot in 6 months and for a lot less.

Just remember you knew nothing before and if it doesn’t work out you are no further in the dark than you were before.  But be ready for more rejection.  You never know what can happen.  Hopefully you can find some medical information even if there is no reunion.